At humhum, we believe dating and the relational path are powerful opportunities for growth and meaningful human connection. We approach dating as a practice.
Meet new humans every month
As a humhum member, we curate and book you one guided blind date every month to support a consistent dating practice. Additional dates can be added as desired.
Each date begins guided by a humhum facilitator, trained to uphold a container designed to foster personal growth and authentic connection.
Coaching and guidance for added support
Explore what’s top of mind and heart in your dating practice with one of our coaches. Sessions are private, and may be booked before or after dates, or as a stand alone session.
How a guided date works.
How a guided date works.
We’re not matchmakers, we are change-makers, here to empower you to cultivate the romantic relationship(s) you’re worthy of.
Break the Ice
A facilitator welcomes you, and offers agreements and an ice-breaker to create a container rooted in kind attention.
Ground
The facilitator guides you and your date in a grounding practice using mindfulness and breath.
Connect 1:1
Go deeper with your date in a private, safe video chat room. Explore a fun and meaningful prompt for easeful conversation.
Deepen or Release
Privately, note if you want to stay connected. If there’s reciprocity, we connect you. If not, no problem, we release the connection with care.
What people are saying.
Kindness is a much better place to build from.
Zaina
We are usually pushed to commodify each other so it was a happy shock to be reminded and incentivized to treat each other as humans first and foremost. I loved the encouragement to be intentional—kindness is a much better place to build from.
I learned so much about myself.
Rachel
humhum brought me out of my comfort zone. I learned so much about the way I engage in a dating experience when nervous. The container allowed me to explore what is causing my nerves and comfort zone.
It felt like an energizing, fun, intentional use of time.
Ryan
Dating usually feels like such a drag and this felt so energizing and fun and way more intentional than using the apps. I had a really lovely experience.
In addition to shaping the future of dating by being a part of the founding humhum community:
The humhum membership includes
1 date per month • Access to live webinars, workshops, and in person events in select cities • Option to purchase additional dates at a discount as available • Option to purchase unlimited coaching sessions • Ability to pause anytime.
3-Month Membership
$99
for 3 months
renews quarterly
One date per month + additional dates at $29
1-Month Membership
$39
for 1 month
renews monthly
One date per month + additional dates at $33
Ready or Not
Explore your sense of readiness in a guided webinar and optional discussion group with mental health practitioner Dr. Eileen Shoals, PsyD, L.M.F.T.
Mindful Dating 101
Learn and practice dating mindfully in a guided workshop and optional discussion group with dating coach, Dr. Marie Thouin
Individuation
Discover and own what feels aligned for you in a guided webinar and optional discussion group with mental health practitioner Dr. Eileen Shoals, PsyD, L.M.F.T.
We are what we practice—cultivate presence, patience, and curiosity with each new connection.
We're curious about you too!
Speak with someone on our team to learn more about humhum, what we can offer, and how together, we can change the dating paradigm.
